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How to Make a Man Fall in Love With You

Wondering how to make a man fall in love with you? First, you must realize that you cannot control anyone else's feelings. However, you can create the conditions that will make those feelings more likely. Falling in love has become more like a job these days, as the pool of available partners is shrinking daily. Dating services, extensive nightlife opportunities and desperation have combined to make fewer men available. While the art of finding love and romance may seem vague and complex, taking a few logical steps can expedite the process so you can find that special guy in the dating pool.

Become friends first.

To create the conditions for attraction, you'll have to hang around together, whether at work or in other social situations. Developing a relationship allows him to experience your sense of humor, your political views and even your personal quirks that make you so endearing.

Make him feel good about himself.

People want to be around those who build them up and make them better. Allow him to do something nice for you; he'll see how good it feels, and you can then shower him with compliments. Identify what areas he's really good at, and then give him compliments on those areas he's working on. He'll see that you are into the whole package, and not just his best parts.

Send signals of your attraction using body language.

From serious eye contact to gentle touching on the arm or shoulder, your attraction can be expressed by what you don't say. Look for any excuse to look him in the eyes and smile, letting him know you are open to a relationship. Other subtle signs of love are playing with your hair, leaning toward him while he's talking and licking your lips.


Attractive And Elusive
Men enjoy a good challenge. Before a man can love you, he has to be interested in you, and you can secure his interest by being attractive and seeming unavailable. This means that you look your best, act your sexiest and even flirt. Simultaneously, you should always have somewhere you need to be, and you should always be the first one to end a conversation. Sound manipulative? It might be, but it's a part of a good-natured game. This way, the man will feel as if he's won a small prize when he begins to earn your affection, and he will respect you for not throwing yourself at him.

Getting Honest
Being too honest too quickly is a turn-off. No man wants to hear about your past on the first date. Remain mysterious. However, if you manage to hold onto a man for several weeks by being sexily aloof, then it's time to begin sharing deeper parts of your personality. Spice up conversations by discussing your love of films, sports or food. The transition from sexy to interesting takes time, but a man can't love you if nothing lies beyond your flirting abilities.

Care For Him
Caring for a man does not mean cleaning his house and folding his laundry. Rather, it simply means paying attention when he talks, appreciating his flaws and helping him when he needs it. If you're looking for a man who can buy you things and be strong at all times, you'd be better off buying a bodyguard. No, a man will not fall in love with you unless you truly care for him.

Do You Love Him?
Falling in love with someone is not a favor. In order to make a man fall in love with you, he needs to feel that you respect him, enjoy his company and maybe even love him back. Why would a woman want the love of a man she doesn't love herself? Before taking the above steps, check your motives. Don't attempt to earn a man's love to eliminate your own insecurities. That being said, taking steps to help a man appreciate your qualities can't do any harm.

Make him feel good about himself.

People want to be around those who build them up and make them better. Allow him to do something nice for you; he'll see how good it feels, and you can then shower him with compliments. Identify what areas he's really good at, and then give him compliments on those areas he's working on. He'll see that you are into the whole package, and not just his best parts.

Keep your distance.

This may seem contradictory to the earlier steps of becoming friends, but there must be an element of hard to get. Men often enjoy pursuing a romantic relationship when there seems to be a bit of a challenge to it. Playing hard to get can satisfy his needs in taking control of the relationship, when you are really in the driver's seat. Be available, but not all the time. Hang out with him, but not always at a moment's notice. Keeping yourself as a desirable but just-out-of-reach woman will heighten his eagerness to be with you.

How Do Men Show Their Love

How do men show their love? Well, mostly it's through their actions. Some men like to wax philosophically about their everlasting love, but most like to show you they love you in big ways and in small. Pay attention to how he treats you, how he touches you and how he acts around you in front of other people. If he's caring and protective and shows that he's the one you're with, then he's exhibiting powerful signs of love.

He Stands By You
One of the biggest signs of love in your man is that he is loyal and will stand by your side in any situation. He will make sure no one harms you. They will make you happy and will stick up for you when you need them to. Doing these things shows profound love more so than any verbal declaration of love could.

It's In His Kiss
You can tell a man's true love for you by the way he is with you physically. If he kisses you gently, hugs you and wants to be by your side, then it's the real thing. Small touches matter, too. If he holds your hand in public or kisses you on the head, he's signifying his feelings for you. Overt and over-the-top public displays of affection are not necessary, however. Groping or making out in public may be a sign that his feelings for you aren't necessarily pure.

They Make You Feel Special
Whether he's slowly falling in love or head over heels, you'll know it because you'll always feel like his one and only. He'll make you the center of his world, and more important, he'll let everyone in his world know about it. It's a big sign when you hear his friends or family telling you how much he cares. If they can tell how much he loves you, it's definitely in the bag.

How Can You Tell When a Man Is in Love With You

How can you tell when a man is in love with you? While men can be notoriously stoic and aloof, a man in love can wear his heart on his sleeve, bearing his genuine emotions for all to see. A man in love is bound to betray himself, no matter how hard he tries to hide the signs.

Care Instead Of Lust
When a man's emotional and physical lust for you are gradually replaced by care, you can assume that he's falling in love. Lust does not have to be physical. It can be a shallow fascination with your looks, the way you make him feel in public or the way you fulfill his own needs. Indeed, early in a loveless relationship, a man may be more concerned with your butt than your gut. When a man begins to love you, he starts to speak positively about your quirks and habits that might be unattractive to other people. He likes the way you chew, sneeze or snore. He starts to laugh affectionately at your faults, and he will show concern when you're ill or upset.

The Look And Feel Of Love
When a man is in love with you, he looks at you in a different way. Before a man loves you, he may not look into your eyes much at all, or his glances are reminiscent of how he glances at a co-worker. When a man is finding love with you, he gazes into your eyes, and his look may include a hint of sadness buried within. This sadness is nothing but an expression of the power of love and romance, and it signals the odd sense of exhaustion we all feel when we're bowled over by someone else. But this yearning can be resolved by a gentle touch in the form of a hug or kiss, and the tenderness between you will grow.

He Tells You
Love is about honesty, and true love can turn the most hardened man into a romantic gentleman. A man who loves you deeply will tell you so, and honest claims of love don't have to be gushy, sappy or forced. Rather, a true declaration of love can break through the detective games of deciphering a man's true feelings. So many songs have been written about the magical three words, and not coincidentally. Love is real, and a man who feels it will tell you so.

Thank You, Man
A man may be in love with you before he even realizes it. The looks, the touches and the caring actions can signal love like red flags. When love reigns strong enough to crack any remaining façade, a strong man in love will tell you so. Remember that men are human; they can hurt or feel joy like all sentient beings. Be patient, read the signs and be grateful for love when it comes.

8 Great Quotes About Love

Quote to Contemplate #1
"Love is like quicksilver in the hand. Leave the fingers open and it stays. Clutch it and it darts away."
-Dorothy Parker

Quote to Contemplate #2
"Among those whom I like or admire, I can find no common denominator, but among those whom I love, I can: All of them make me laugh."
-W.H. Auden

Quote to Contemplate #3
"It's not the men in your life that counts, it's the life in your men."
-Mae West

Quote to Contemplate #4
"Love is like a plant. You can't just accept it and leave it in the cupboard or just think it's going to get on by itself. You've got to keep watering it. You've got to really look after it and nurture it."
-John Lennon

Quote to Contemplate #5
"We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love."
-Tom Robbins

Quote to Contemplate #6
"Love is the answer, but while you are waiting for the answer, sex raises some pretty interesting questions. "
-Woody Allen

Quote to Contemplate #7
"Once a woman has forgiven her man, she must not reheat his sins for breakfast."
-Marlene Dietrich

Quote to Contemplate #8
"A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous."
-Ingrid Bergman

Being overly-fond of "best of all time" lists, Laura Schaefer is the author of Man with Farm Seeks Women with Tractor: The Best and Worst Personal Ads of All Time.

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